I remember my girl friends used to tell me that all the time. & Looking back in the past, it does makes me laugh. For example, when i was in a relationship before, i loved him and cared for him but one day it was all a nightmare. Found out he cheated, i was real heart broken that time. & every guy that comes my way, it made it more worse for me, because i could no longer trust them or believe anything they say. I cried for days & ask myself, WHAT DID I DO WRONG? Hella shiz running through my head. & Thats when i came to this, “all guys are the same, they be all cupcakin & sweet talk to you till later on without you knowing, they backstabbin you in the back. Then call you & say they love you & all that bs when its all a lie in the end” so then, it was hard for me to be in a relationship. I’ve dated guys instead of being in a relationship, cus i was scared to fall for them. I didnt wanna go through the same pain again, but what kills you makes you stronger right. Yeaah, so after all the pain & it got healed, i was ready to be in a relationship again & give it a try. But i couldnt help myself & think, what if he cheat on me again? All those negative thoughts runnin through my head. UNTIL THIS POINT OF DAY CAME. I never thought it’d talk to someone like him, cus i never see myself with him in a relationship but he proved me wrong. My girls tells me, im lucky to have someone like him cus he is a good guy & i am also happy that i took the chance to get to know him, to give him the chance to holla at me. Despite of what happened in the past, i was able to put all the negative thoughts aside. Because i thought to myself, am i just gonna be like this all the time? How about my happiness? Am i being selfish for having my guards up all the time? So looking back at the past makes me laugh NOW cus its stupid how it’d trip hella bad about shiz that wasnt even supposed to be there. I’d be going crazy if my guy dont call me or whatevs. Hahah how stupid of me. You know what elders always say, its just “puppy love” you’ll get your heart broken, but its good so you experience it now while your young, because once you find the RIGHT ONE, there’s no turning back & everything will be okay (:

My advice, you dont gotta take it or anything, im just saying. If ever your heart broken, let it healed till your ready to be in a relationship again. Dont rush into things, cus the more you rush, the sooner it will fall. Its okay to get to know someone, cus thats the first step before getting into a relationship. If you have something to say to them or problems about them, say it right away so you can get that off your chest instead of dwelling on it for days. If a nice guy comes but dont gotta swag at all, open up your heart cus you never know what he has to offer. You never know till you try & actually take the chance. Its not all about the guys that can dress & gotta swag, its all about the personality & the looks comes next. Because think about it, you might have the cutest boyfriend but im sure you’d be having problems & dealing with all their girls tryna holla at him when hes out? Feel me, im not saying its bad having a cute boyfriend but if you can deal with girls tryna holla at him or anything, then props to you & best wishes with your guy’s relationship. But just choose wisely. Looks can be decieving (: so next time, you dont get your heart broken again & repeat the same cycle over & over. But its hard to find the good ones at this time, most of em are taken. When that person guys & it’s the right time, remember, TAKE THE CHANCE & DONT LET IT PASS YOU BY.